“This is not a simple parenting book. This book is about how we relate to our children, what hinders good bonding, and how to improve that bond. This book is about how we were raised and how that affects our parenting, the mistakes we make, especially the ones we never wanted to make, and what we should do about them. You won't find parenting tips or shortcuts in this book - in fact, this book may sometimes get on your nerves - make you angry, or help you be a better parent. “I wrote the book that I wish I had read when I first became a parent and that I wish my parents had read, too.”