This product will be shipped by [page="merchant_info"]Hayykitap[/page] . Free returns within 15 days. For detailed information, click [page="return_conditions"][/page]. Would Your Mother Scream at You and Beat You? When I was a kid, beating, insulting and yelling at children were considered 'normal' parenting behaviour. When families treated their children in these ways, they would not experience feelings of regret, remorse, or compensating for the mistake that today's mothers experience. Because that was the era of 'he who does not beat his daughter will beat his knee' - 'beating is heaven'. That's how they learned. When the child made a mistake, punishment had to be given - in fact, the bigger the punishment, the better. For example, beating the child meant - 'look, this behavior of yours is very wrong - so much so that I beat you - I hurt you so that you won't do it again'. The ironic part is that although we look back with tears in our eyes and remember the moments when our mothers or fathers beat us, screamed at us, or made us feel humiliated, we do not remember why they did it - that is, the lesson they wanted to teach us. I'm sure you feel certain things, too: The lesson the parent wanted to give has been forgotten. All that remains are the cold memories of the beatings received and the scoldings heard. This is exactly why this book was written. So that when our children look back years later, they will feel the warmth of a mother who touched their hearts rather than the coldness of a slap on their cheeks... Then, let's all come together and make an intention for a motherhood that doesn't scream... Hello mommy - It's me - your child. Don't say, 'I already know who you are.' Because I think we haven't met you closely yet. I don't think you made enough effort to get to know me. If we had met, you would have noticed that I was trying to tell you something when I cried - when I got stubborn - when I got scared - when I reacted and got angry. You would focus not on my actions - but on the real reason behind them. Then you wouldn't think, 'He's doing it to upset me' or 'He's just trying to spite me'... You would feel that there was an innocent need underneath every behavior of mine. So, I am leaving this book in your hands so that we can meet you... I know that the more you get to know me, the more you will love me, support my development, and hold my hand and walk together on my path of life. And with every single aspect of you that you do or fail to do - I love you so, so much.
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