4th Edition June 2023 3rd Edition June 2022 An expectant mother goes to the child psychiatrist. She expresses that she wants to have children. The doctor asks about their family relationships. “Is there stress etc. at home?” says. The expectant mother said, "We are newlyweds - obviously there are some problems." he replies. Doctor: "Postpone having children - stressful environment is risky." says. However, the most basic professional principle was violated here. An expert cannot make such a precise decision for you. Secondly - which marriage does not have problems and stress? It's as if all these mothers first experience stress etc. She got rid of the psychological processes and then had a child! People have children even in a war environment. A mathematician speaks with knowledge. Your actions cannot be "for me" or "for you". However, not everything that professionals in our field say is information. Most of the words and advice that come from the mouth of these experts and that may cause you to have an attitude and behavior towards your children and cause you to determine a path and procedure are comments - opinions. It is useful for you to know this critical distinction. Because no interpretation is as solid and reliable as knowledge, especially scientific knowledge. In an interpretation and opinion, from personal perceptions to social values, ego-caprice-complex etc. Many factors play a role, from personality problems to professional experience processes. For this reason, maximum attention should be paid to this important detail when listening to an expert on psychology / pedagogy or reading a work.
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