Loving Is Not Enough & The Missing Piece in Raising Children 2-9786050624816

Loving Is Not Enough The Missing Piece in Raising Children Martha Moraghan Jablow, Nancy Samalin / Buzdağı Publications Publication Year: 2022 Number of Pages: 320 Paper Type: Book Paper Size: 13.5 x 21 Language Turkish Binding Condition: Paperback ISBN: 9786050624816 Author: Martha Moraghan Jablow, Nancy Samalin Translator: Dr. Esra Eret We love our children very much, there is no doubt about that. But can we raise individuals who are aware of their responsibilities and are self-sufficient? We have great tolerance for our children when they do not fulfill their responsibilities, when they whine, when they fight with each other, when they do not eat their meals or when they do not listen to us. Sometimes we explode when we can't afford it. We get angry, shout and make threats. And then we hate ourselves for doing these things. All these problems are caused by us not using the right language. Children don't listen to us when we don't use the right language. When this happens, things get complicated. For example, we have to clean his room instead of him. But this is both tiring and unsustainable. It also causes outbursts of anger that will later make us hate ourselves. When there is correct communication, all problems are solved automatically. Children begin to listen to their parents and fulfill their responsibilities. Mothers and fathers can also focus on what they really need to do. Anger outbursts and subsequent regrets disappear. The book Loving Is Not Enough tells us how to establish correct communication with children. The methods described have been used successfully for decades. The book also contains numerous examples of dialogues and events that actually happened. In this way, parents can see the wrong reactions they give to the situations they encounter most frequently and learn the correct ones. We cannot always be there for our children and we cannot eliminate the obstacles they face on their behalf. We need to raise individuals who can stand on their own feet. It is not enough for us to love our children. We must learn to communicate with them correctly and effectively as soon as possible. For both our children and ourselves.