If we do not have the freedom to be angry with someone, we cannot choose to love them. We cannot truly love someone whom we do not have the freedom not to love. If the feelings we feel for someone are predefined as "what we should feel for them" - our relationship with them will not end - or even begin. In real life, “I shouldn't feel like this!”- “I shouldn't feel like that!” Because there is no such thing. Feelings do not ask necessity which way to go. No 'real' and mature relationship is inherently objective. Subjects do not establish their 'real' sharing through objectivity. Every emotion that we are not free to accept takes over our body and soul like pus that cannot flow out. Every emotion we imprison inside us also imprisons us. Because we fall under everything we cover. We seek what we lack - even from the one who leaves us wanting or something similar. Throughout our lives, we beg for our shortcomings from those who have already left us short. However, the only thing we can do is to show ourselves the attention, respect, understanding of our feelings, protection and unconditional love that we do not receive. A person can only be an adult, free and happy when he can be his own parent. If these sound familiar to you somewhere, you are ready to read this book. I won't tell you who this book is about or your relationship with... Because I know that if I tell you, you will run away. You will run away even though it is not good for you, it ruins you, it makes you sick, it makes you unhappy. However, your real fear was escaping itself. If you just let it hurt a little bit - the hurt will go away. I call you into the healing hands of yourself. - Cem Mumcu Alice Miller, author of the world-famous book called The Drama of the Talented Child, reveals how these diseases arise with The Body Never Lies. This book deals with the conflict between our emotions and what we want to feel in order to comply with the moral codes that our bodies register and have internalized since time immemorial.
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